My 2014 Patriot has the 5-spd. It's now at 145,000 miles and hasn't given me any trouble. By all accounts the 5-spd seems to be the more durable transmission. Very few reports on this site about problems with it.
I also had a 2008 Patriot with the automatic (CVT) and it was replaced twice under warranty, but other than that no serious problems till after 200,000 miles.
About 210,000 I had an electrical problem that my dealer did an excellent job trouble-shooting. That was my first repair and was well worth the $1000. With those miles I couldn't complain. Sooner or later anything can break down, but I think my Patriots have been quite durable.
After that I did struts around 225,000 and the throttle body around 250,000. I sold it to a friend and he's still driving it -- around 295,000 last time we talked. He hasn't mentioned any problems. In fact he bought a set of snow tires from me so I guess he's planning on keeping it for a while yet.