You may have to take the part number off the relay and do an online search on it. ( ebay, electronics part houses, etc.)
The corrosion can be on the relay pins, but also on the socket metal and wiring. This thread should give you an idea:
Having problems with my PAT It'd be good to know how people fix it without too much money spending. Could anyone suggest where to buy this relays (G8HE-1C7T-R1-DC12) in Europe. it's weird but I can only find -R- not -R1-. Is it difference between those two relays? Do I have to replace the...
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There also may be a problem with engine bay ground G111 being corroded. The wire under the crimp can corrode where you can't see it. The fix is to cut the old eyelet off, and install a new one.
More info on grounds here:
G110 G111 & G112 G111 G112
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