Ditto Terasec. What you
can do and what you
should do are different. If this is a one-time-only thing, just rent a truck that's already capable. Even with the tow package its a light duty setup. The Patriot is a nifty little CUV that rides like a car, is off-road capable, and snow-ready, but making it work like an F-150 is not a good plan. You or the next owner will be swearing up a storm about how awful the Patriot is, too many repairs, funny noises, etc. Its is what it is and its not what its not.
I think my Wrangler has a tow capacity of 2000 lbs, and I've towed light stuff, like my lawn tractor, furniture, trash to the dump, or picking up my coal in 1000 lb increments. I suppose an m/c or snowmobile would be OK. I never go over 1,500 lbs and while its capable, its hardly the same vehicle with even that much weight behind me.
A couple years ago I nearly got hit by a guy towing a race-car with an undersized pick-up. He had the power but the combination compromised the handling; of course pick-ups are already light in the rear and maybe there wasn't enough weight on the tongue. He was coming toward me and the road was wet. I doubt he was doing more than 30mph, but when he jabbed the brakes the trailer jack-knifed and pushed the back end of the truck into my lane.

No collision only because there was a grassy area where I could escape. Musta raised the hair on the back of his neck!
Also, should you get stopped by the police, the fines are designed to punish commercial operators like contractors and OTR trucks -- the fines are outrageous for the average joe.