You walk into a Jeep forum and expect an unbiased opinion?
I was pretty-well sure i was going to get a Forester when it came time to get a new(er) car. They have history as being very capable vehicles, they can hold a lot of stuff, and in the NW at least, they're relatively inexpensive used.
I test-drove a Forester, but didn't even need to put it in gear to realize that i HATED it. I can't tell you why exactly. Let's chalk it up to the X factor - it just didn't feel right, even just sitting in it.
It felt cheap and plasticky. One could argue that the Partiot feels cheap and plasticky, and it very much IS. The Forester, however, tried hard to seem like it was NOT cheap. The Patriot flaunts its cheapness; hell, ask anyone here - a utilitarian, easy-to-clean interior is one of the most-loved aspects of our Patriots. Cheap is cheap is cheap, but Subaru wants to pretend that cheap and luxe can coexist. Ehhhh, no.
Once on the road, it felt like i was piloting a pig down the street - it feels heavy. It wallows down the street, seemingly faster than its actually going (though, to be fair, that may be because i was used to driving a Blazer, which sits higher). The full-time AWD was subtle, but noticable, even in straight-line driving. That's not bad, per se, but a much different feeling than the Blazer's Auto-4WD (which only kicks in when required). I also feel that the full-time AWD added to the heavy-feeling of the car, especially in corners. I'm sure the well-worn model i drove was probably in need of some new shocks, but it didn't leave me with a great impression. I didn't find the driving to be confidence-inspiring at all.
And while i didn't know this ahead of time, i was surprised by the difference in price. Remember how i said that used Subarus are inexpensive here in the NW? Well, a 4- or 5-year-newer Patriot cost me less than the "inexpensive" (and don't forget cheap!) Forester.
The Patriot felt right. The price was right. It was a two-wheel drive, but i fancy myself as an excellent driver, so i wasn't too concerned. I snapped up the Jeep without hesitation. I actually wished for a little bit that I liked the Forester more, since i'd banked so much on it being "the one". But that feeling was gone & long forgotten on the drive home that night in my Patriot.
As to the Rogue, I can't say. They're too new for anyone to really have an opinion, i think, unless they've driven one. If you try one out, come back and let us know what you think.