I just purchased a 2014 Patriot Latitude with Freedom Drive I, 2.4L engine, and 6 speed auto transmission. I currently only have 530 miles on it, but I have been loving it so far. I had the same issues with reading reviews, but I eventually decided to make my own decision. After test driving one, I immediately fell in love with it. It has such a nice ride on the road and I don't find that I have problems keeping up with traffic or merging on thehighway. I haven't had the chance to test it offroad, but all I've heard are good things about its offroad performance. I have only filled up twice so far and I have averaged about 22 mpg both times, which I am fine with for an SUV. I find that there is plenty of room for anything I need (reviews will tell you that the Patriot has less storage than its competitors, but if I don't that since it is boxy, it gives more room than it lets on). Before I left work today, I had my 6 ft 3 in tall coworker sit in the back seat and he commented on how much room he had to work with (he also loved the reclining rear seat feature). Upfront there is plenty of room for the driver and passenger. I have read mixed reviews about the interior, some saying it is "cheap", but I love it. Its a simple set up but it works great.
For me, I found the Latitude package to have everything I needed and then some. I think it would be worth a test drive to see how it feels, but I don't think you will be disappointed. Let us know how it turns out!