Tylers thread on license plate light bulb replacement reminded me that I never wrote an update on this.
Turns out the system really is
very simple. Considering how difficult these things tend to be in modern vehicles, I would call it flat out ingenious!

(One time when my previous vehicle had a burned out headlight, I took it to the stealership and watched two mechanics work on it. They ended up dismantling part of the air conditioning to get to the light bulb... :icon_rolleyes: This one minute headlight replacement setup in the Jeep sure blows that out of the water!

) Only problem was, both connectors were so insanely tight that it was impossible to unplug them before removing the light bulb from the housing! Also, the instructions in the manual had absolutely no bearing on what was really under the hood, which complicated the matter somewhat. You'd think I would have learned by now never to trust what Chrysler says?
In case anyone else is having the same problem:
1) The connector
should disconnect when you simply pull on it. There is no locking lever on the connector, despite what the manual says.
2) If the connector is as stuck as mine was, what worked for me was leaving it connected, pulling the rubber insulation back, essentially folding it inside out (there are tabs on the edge of the insulation that you can use - just pull it back from those) and after this you can see the wire clip that keeps the light bulb in place. Once you get the bulb away from the reflector housing, it is much easier to slowly work it loose.