It's funny I came across this topic. When I went out to the Chrysler Jeep Dodge dealer this is roughly what happened:
Me: "I'm interested in a Jeep, let's go check out the Patriots, Wranglers and maybe the Compass"
Salesman: "You bet, but some people see the Compass as "the girl version" of the Patriot."
Me: "...Let's go look at the Patriots"
Hahaha. I didn't get the pat because of this statement, I got it for my own reasons. But seriously I do agree with everyone else, drive what you want and what you're proud of. And heck, you're trail rated and that's just badass in itself no matter what Jeep you're in!