I was in the same boat as the OP in 2013 and had a year to study vehicle replacement for our 10 yr. old short wheelbase Caravan, which we loved, but was discontinued.
It was difficult to access the rag reviews for important things like reliability, since they seemed to focus on infotainment abilities, leading edge engines (direct injection, turbo, etc.). At the same time, there is somewhat of a cult bias on this site and it was difficult to access reviews here also.
Here are my thoughts. The early Patriots suffered from the gutting of Chrysler up through 2009. Quality control was horrid. My professional Mopar mechanic friend said the quality control improvements since Fiat took over are EXTREMELY noticeable.
- The (my) base model Pat is an entry level, economy type vehicle. You get what you pay for. I'm a minimalist, so no problems. But the Honda CRV I also considered (but couldn't stomach $4 K more) had much better fit and finish. Nothing on the Pat seems heavy duty: the door/hood hinges, the suspension parts (amazed guys rock crawl with them). The seat fabric looks thin, but inspection of a '09 Forest Service (abused) Pat shows them to hold up well.
- The GEMA engine is unrefined. But a google search turns up NO major problems. For comparison, investigate Honda VCM problems, Subie oil consumption problems, various mfg. direct injection problems. I'll take iron clad reliability vs. refinement any day (that's just my take). My mechanic friend told me Chrysler bought out the rights to this engine and made a few improvements. Plenty of get up and go for me....I don't understand the negative power complaints. Extremely easy maintenance: plugs, oil, etc..
- I didn't like the CVT, so the 6 speed was a selling point. Chrysler has a deal with JATCO to only replace CVT's($4K), they are not allowed to rebuild them ($2K). While Nissan will rebuild them, I have no recollection of anyone doing this.
-It's still a bit early to tell if the '11 upgrade eliminates the ball joint issue. Since I DIY, this most prevalent problem was not a deal breaker for me, compared to the unresolved Subie Forester oil consumption problems.
-Ride quality? My Caravans rode like sedans. The Pat has a stiffer suspension and improved, but still not enough noise padding. There is a bit of wind noise, road noise (crappy Goodyears maybe?). Michigan roads are terrible, so I actually run my tires 2 lbs. under the label to soften the ride. Ride quality is good enough for me. Seat comfort is no problem (for me).
-Paint quality seems very high. Windshield was replaced already from rock hit, a bit more prevalent due to it's more upright angle.
-The 2wd Pat fits our farm life needs. It handled our very bad winter excellent.
- It's the little things associated with an economy vehicle that have been my only minor complaints: side plastic seat trim broke (warranteed), weatherstrip shrinkage (warranty). Certainly better than dealing with a major drivetrain problem that I read about on other mfg.forums.
Overall, I am satisfied with my purchase. It's just tough (for me) to get over the stigma associated with the Pat and Chrysler, in general.