broaden your search area significantly. Always seems that odds of anyone finding an FDII at the local dealer are pretty small. Seems to be alot of anecdotes about having to travel a bit to pick one up, even going out of state. Also, that dealers seem to suck at finding them at other dealerships.... and apparently sometimes finding them on their own lot. Mine, I found online at a dealer an hour away and them talked to a salesman who was pretty convinced he didnt have an FDII on his lot... until I showed him. Can't blame him much, cuz the dealership didnt even have it as anything unusual in its own ad--no reference to it being trail rated or FDII... I identified it because its a 'cvt2L' (as in, cvt with low gear) instead of 'cvt2'. So do yer homework.
You could find it yourself, tell yer local dealer where it is, and let the dealers work out an exchange. But ya might just want to buy it wherever ya find it, doesnt matter where you buy it. The only thing you need locally is service.
and, i bet that if ya find a FDII, it will come with power group... although it may be Latitude. Might have to suck it up, or go sport and get aftermarket power windows/doors. Just search for the FDII, it will help to limit yer variables when doing a broad search
search for posts here that discuss searching for an FDII/trail rated, you should be able to find the name of the sites used to search
good luck