sfalconio,
I can't help you with the actual installation, you'll get printed instructions for that from Mopar. One tip I can provide that might answer your question is once you have the fog lights installed, you will have to take your Patriot to a Jeep dealership to have the computer reprogrammed to accept the new lights. This should activate the dash board fog light indicator lamp.
I took a different route... Go to the Photo Gallery and see my posts there about how I installed my fog lights.
BTW, the dealership I asked said the reprogramming of the computer cost around $90.
