Okay, let's look at this from a rational perspective.
Let's say you want to support 500lbs on the stock crossbars. They attach to the Patriot's roof in four locations (a front and a rear attachment point at the end of each rail). That being said, you need to divide the total supported weight by 4 to see how much weight will be on each attachment point (let's call them "points" for simplicity).
500lbs / 4 points = 125lb/point
Based on Terasec's pics of the roof attachment points above, I would be sketchy about having 125lbs on one of those points for any great duration.
That said, if you can spread out the weight over a greater area of the roof, you can effectively keep your points safer, at the potential risk of flexing your roof panel somewhat.
LENGTHY ANECDOTE AHEAD:
I had a large plastic rooftop cargo carrier that I used to move cross-country over the course of a month. I didn't have crossbars, and the carrier was too narrow to sit on top of the rails. What it did have, however, was about 8 dense foam strips that ran crossways underneath the carrier. These distributed the weight over the entire roof panel. It did flex under the weight, but it didn't impact the interior headliner at all, and after the stuff was removed, the roof went right back into shape with no denting (there was some scuffing from where dirt had lodged under the foam, though). The rails simply kept the carrier from sliding around.
I am sure I had about 300lbs of stuff up there, for about a month straight. You could certainly feel the drag when driving, and you could feel the extra weight up high around sharp turns; however, the Patriot didn't feel unstable at all (if anything, having the extra weight helped it feel more planted if anything), and I haven't developed any weird roof leaks as a result. That was over 5 years ago.
So, if you add some foam supports (I'm thinking maybe something like yoga blocks? maybe something a little softer) between the tent and the roof that are strategically located over the internal crossmembers in the roof, you should be able to spread the weight enough to not impact the Patriot's structure significantly, if at all.
Creation had some pics of the roof crossmembers when he pulled his headliner, but they seem to have disappeared from his posts. Maybe he can post them back up?