Just an update for who might be interested. It turns out that my ' 07 FDII came with the quote on quote "Trailer Tow Prep Group" ($50 option) that basically included the wiring tow harness, but was not installed. I obviously know that since I have it in the darn bag with me! So the time came for me to buy a hitch (oem by the way - only because it is hidden and wont affect my departure angle) and at first they tell me that they were going to charge me to install the wiring harness on top of the labor for the installation of the hitch. Anyways after extensive deliberations with the mopar speed shop department and one of the head honchos at my local 5 star dealership, they agreed to charge me only $ 90 dollars to get the hitch and the wiring harness installed! I think that is a great price given that I do not have much time to do the install and it would all be under warranty.
Now the tricky part. My fellow Patriots...tell me that this sounds like to you...
Ok, so they tell me that they had to do the installation after I tell them that I can do it on my own because I did not have much money left. I ask them why, why do you have to do the install, why can't I? They say that they have to update (flash) the computer after the entire install with their startech, or star something computer to let the computer of the jeep know that their has been a wiring harness attached to the light system, otherwise it wont send a signal to the trailer being towed. I told them, that is absurd, I have never heard of a thing like that. I told them to look here ( I showed them the actual installation manual that came with the wiring harness) and is says nothing about flashing the computer. He tells me, " I know but we have almost daily updates and notes, "your paperwork is outdated". I agreed to have them install it wether this is true or not since I was only going to pay $ 90 dollars, but I cant help feel I was dooped over on this one.
My question to you Patriots is, was I dooped over? I think (and this is my justification) that it was ok since for me shelling out $90 to get a quality install is great, but what if it were you? Also, one more thing, they assured me that they were going to be able to keep the factory tow hook, they guaranteed me otherwise they would put it all back together and refund me the labor, parts and all and I would walk away (even with a new bumber they say). Keep in mind that the hitch I bought is the one that is hidden within the bumber. I am sure they will figure it out before they cut into it.